Suggestions for Exercises - Lesson 14

These are my suggestions for the exercises for lesson 14. Don't think of these as the "correct answers". They're simply my responses from my perspective. If one of your choices differs from mine, see if you can figure out why you chose the way you did.

1. King of Cups: I would sit down with my spouse to discuss his/her concerns. -- (caring)
2. King of Pentacles: I would give him five dollars. He probably needs it more than I do. -- (supporting)
3. King of Swords: I would ask my daughter for her story before making any judgments. -- (just)
4. King of Wands: I would booby trap my car so an alarm goes off if my roommate starts it. -- (creative)
5. King of Pentacles: I would tell my friend "Sorry, they need me at work." -- (reliable)
6. King of Swords: I would accept the invitation because I'm an excellent public speaker. -- (articulate)
7. King of Cups: I would smile and patiently give my order a third time. -- (patient)
8. King of Wands: I would call a huddle and get everyone fired up again. -- (inspiring)

Exercise 14.3 - Queens

1. Queen of Cups: My cousin is going to need extra love and support. -- (loving)
2. Queen of Pentacles: I can figure out a way to get the keys if I put my mind to it. -- (resourceful)
3. Queen of Swords: What's the real reason I was given this hopeless project? -- (astute)
4. Queen of Wands: I'll have extra energy when I lose weight. -- (energetic)
5. Queen of Pentacles: I'll keep this secret since my friend entrusted me with it. -- (trustworthy)
6. Queen of Swords: I'll be open and honest in this interview so there are no misunderstandings. -- (honest)
7. Queen of Cups: I can use this time to meditate and recenter myself. -- (spiritual)
8. Queen of Wands: I know I can make new friends easily. -- (self-assured)

Exercise 14.4 - Knights

1. Knight of Cups: You're too sulky. You're oversensitive. Your emotions are ruling you.
2. Knight of Wands: You're boasting. Bragging doesn't impress. You're too focused on appearances.
3. Knight of Pentacles: You're too cautious. You're settling for less. You're afraid to risk.
4. Knight of Wands: You act without thinking. You're too angry. You're adding to the fighting.
5. Knight of Swords: You're too blunt. You're too critical. People have feelings.
6. Knight of Cups: You're too jealous. You're overemotional. You're imagining things.
7. Knight of Swords: You're too domineering. You're insensitive. Your son isn't your slave.
8. Knight of Pentacles: You're too stubborn. You won't compromise. You're afraid to change.

Exercise 14.8 - Court Cards in Action

1. Knight of Swords - Position 5
   • My father-in-law is too critical and overbearing. He's all I can think about right now.
   • My preference is to tell my father-in-law exactly what I think of his interference...to really tell him off!

   King of Wands - Position 9

   • The key is to recognize that my father-in-law is used to being the center of attention.
   • The best way for me to proceed is to project my own authority naturally.

2. Queen of Cups - Position 6
   • A salesperson who is patient and caring may show up in the near future.
   • The purchase may go more smoothly in the future if I let my intuition guide me.

   King of Swords - Position 7

   • I can be successful if I follow the model of the King of Swords - research the facts so I know what I'm talking about.
   • If I take a stance that is honest, the car dealership may do likewise.

3. Queen of Pentacles - Position 1
   • This situation revolves around the talents of the Queen of Pentacles: to give love and care to children.
   • The heart of the matter is that I need to be loyal and trustworthy.

   Page of Cups - Position 2

   • A secondary factor is that this situation is an opportunity to make a loving, thoughtful gesture for a friend.
   • The kids (Pages) may surprise me by being sweet and loving.

4. Queen of Wands - Position 4
   • I've met someone who is sexy and attractive, but I need to stop focusing on that right now.
   • This situation is risky, but in the past, I've always been able to handle just about anything.

   Knight of Cups - Position 8

   • I must be careful because I'm caught up in an atmosphere of romance that may overwhelm my better judgment.
   • This person has just been through an emotional breakup and will be extra vulnerable and needy.

5. Knight of Pentacles - Position 10
   • My body is telling me that I am going to have to be extra cautious.
   • Even if I avoid this problem now, I will eventually have to be realistic about it.

   Page of Swords - Position 3

   • The source of the problem is that I need to face the truth about my health.
   • Fundamentally, this situation is a challenge that I must meet with fortitude and resolve.

6. Knight of Wands - Position 2
   • I must keep an eye on my boss who is brash and nervy; he could oppose me in this situation.
   • I need to reinforce myself with an extra dose of confidence.

   King of Pentacles - Position 9

   • My hope is that my idea will work and make money for the company.
   • I need to find someone I can turn to for reliable information on handling this situation competently.

7. Queen of Swords - Position 3
   • I probably have an unrecognized need; I must face what needs to be faced, even if unpleasant.
   • The deeper reason why I'm dissatisfied is that I'm beginning to see through the false promises of my old way of life.

   Page of Wands - Position 7

   • I've lost my my sense of adventure; I want to feel passionate about life again.
   • My high-energy, creative persona may not be serving me any longer.

8. Page of Pentacles - Position 8
   • My friend expects me to be the one he can always count on.
   • The context of this situation is a practical, money matter.

   King of Cups - Position 1

   • The most important consideration is to help a friend in need.
   • It's crucial that I make a wise decision about what to do.

Exercises for Lesson 14

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